Bandgirl's Blog

{October 24, 2017}   What’s New?

Silverwing has been very busy the last few.

From playing at some great locations across Northern Nevada, like the Ponderosa Saloon in Virginia City, to Mummer’s in Sparks, to our hometown hangout, Boomer’s, it’s been wild.

But right now we are finishing up the last touches on a new CD.  Eight original tunes, plus two covers from Mel’s favorite country artist, Merle Haggard will be included.

It has taken months to lay down the tracks and then edit and re-do some things.  I personally am going attempt to improve on my vocals.  A challenge, but well worth the effort.  I want to add positively to the quality of the CD.

Another amazing change is getting our music on internet radio stations.  We’ve submitted “Wide Open Spaces” and “Moonshine” which are getting quite a bit of love.  On Number1Music our songs are #1 in Nevada!  The current CD “Moonshine” is available at

Upcoming gigs include Boomer’s, Sparks Lounge and Mummer’s.

Feel free to checkout the schedule at  Come say hi on Facebook or Twitter @silverwingtunes.

Enjoy!  Mary





This Saturday, me, Mel, Georgina and Brandon ( will be hitting the stage at Boomer’s Bar.  Silverwing is the ONLY band that has a regularly scheduled gig, cause we bring people in and keep them there.  Our band has had the best nights for years.

This weekend could be a challenge. It might end up being our worst turnout because it’s warming up and the barbeque & beer crowd will be busy in the backyard.  After a tummy full of burgers and a case of beer who the heck wants to drive into town and go see a band.

So we might just play to an empty room, but that’s the breaks. It’s not personal, it’s just how the cookie crumbles.

In case of an empty room, first rule, keep smiling, keep looking like you’re having a good time.  Somebody might stumble in and if the band members look like their having a bad time, well then, heck, let’s get out of here.  Next, try something new.  Go ahead and butcher that new song you’re putting into the set list.  Go for it!  A live setting will force you to step up and push yourself.  You can’t stop and go over that lead or tighten up that break.  It’s now or never.  I usually find out that I actually do a pretty good job when it’s on the line. And finally, reach out personally to the folks that are with you.  Talk to them, thank them, include them in the  band jokes, put a personal touch on it.  Go shake some hands and invite them back.  A small, but mighty, crowd can be so much fun.

Well, wish us luck. I’m still gonna do my best, look my best and enjoy every second of the entire night.  I am lucky and I know it.  I am grateful and never forget it. I am blessed and in awe.  Playing music with my husband and good friends is a joy, never to be taken for granted.

I even appreciate an empty room.

I hope you all have a wonderful weekend.

Check out my website and tell me how it looks, I know I could improve it.  Suggestions welcome.

You can enjoy our song “Moonshine”

Thanks, Mary Warstler

Although I have been actively performing for over ten years with Silverwing, I haven’t always been the bass player.  The bass playing has just been in the last two years, when our last bass player moved on.  At that point, the band consisted of my husband Mel on Lead Guitar and Vocals, Me on rhythm guitar and Frank on drums.

The most logical thing would be to hire a new bass player, but instead Mel asked me if I would consider playing bass, so we could add a different instrument, like steel or keyboards.  I’d done about 3 or 4 songs on bass, mostly plunking out root notes, but I was game.  And Mel is very kind and supportive, even when I hit some terrible note, he just cringes and smiles that smile, you know the one, the smile that says, “what the heck was that?”

So I take on learning about 75 songs on the bass, ugh.  When I use to strum an E chord for 4 measures now I’m playing a walking bass line for 4 measures, so it’s challenging.  But so worthwhile.  I feel like I contribute to the songs in a different way.  I can tell that my part is integral to the feel of the song.  I help it bounce or I drive the walking bass line or I subtly fill in around the edges on a slow ballad.  I’ve decided I really like bass playing and my poor guitars sit alone in their cases wondering what they did wrong.

As one of the few female musicians in our neck of the woods, I could feel special and be impressed with myself, but that is just not my style.  I know the only reason I play professionally is because I’m married into the band.  It’s easier and makes the band more secure when half the band is so connected, so egomania is just not my way.  I’m humbly grateful for all the opportunities that I get to enjoy.  I know when I’m in the old folks home, no one will believe me, but they can just push my wheelchair over in the corner and ignore me while I go on endlessly about my career as a rockstar. Ha!

But as I studied the bass, I discovered the amazing Carol Kaye, a studio musician who performed on over 10,000 recordings in her career.  From TV theme songs like Mission Impossible and Get Smart to iconic rock songs like La Bamba and Sloop John Be to film scores for Quincy Jones, Carol Kaye was part of a group of studio musicians who performed for the greatest composers on the greatest recordings of that era.

Legend has it that a fellow musician did not show up for a recording session, although Carol was hired to play the guitar, she picked up the Fender bass and played his part on the Beach Boys album “Pet Sounds”

She played for Glen Campbell on Rhinestone Cowboy and is credited with inspiring the introduction to Wichita Lineman.

Since we live in Fallon, NV the current home of Top Gun training school, I have to include Carol’s performance on “The Top Gun Song,”  You’ve Lost that Lovin’ Feeling.  (And yes they are supposed to be in San Diego, but those jets are cruising through the mountains right outside my window.)

Well, it’s definitely time for me to practice. I hope you are inspired by Carol Kaye.

{February 24, 2015}   Silverwing’s ready to gig

We are gearing up for a great year.  We just added a new drummer who is bringing some intensity to the band.  Our set lists are geared to get folks up on the floor dancing.  Just booked a few new gigs at one of our favorite spots, the Ponderosa Saloon, in historic Virginia City and a music festival in Fernley, NV.

Life is good in Silverwing. I’m getting better on the bass everyday.  Today I checked out a video on the bass line to Pretty Woman. Ya know what?  A year ago I turned if off and walked away.  Today I was like “Oh yeah, I’m stepping it up.”  Wait till the band hears me at practice.  Can’t wait.

So if you are looking for a great rockin’ country band for your event in Nevada or Northern California, contact us at  come visit me on twitter also.  I’m ready to chat.

Mary, the bandgirl

Silverwing is going to have a great time this Friday night when we get to play at the Red Dog Saloon in historic Virginia City, Nevada.  First off, any time we play any where is a great time, but the Red Dog is a legend in rock-n-roll music history.  Janis Joplin played there along with other rockers of her era.

Now they bring new and upcoming acts to town like Rose’s Pawn Shop and keep the place packed with their great food.  For us in Silverwing it’s an awesome gig with a great stage and high tech sound equipment.  I am not as experienced a musician as the rest of the band and I am even intimidated by the sound check!  I don’t want to show my inexperience before the gig even starts.  Hah, that wouldn’t be real impressive.  So I act cool and calm and try to make an appropriate request, like “Can I have a little more vocals in my monitor.”  That’s good band jargon!

We are pleased to be asked to play this particular weekend, since it Camel Races Weekend and town will be packed. Learn more about the Camel Races at  I guess the camel races are a hoot and when they are over you can visit numerous restaurants or bars for some entertainment.

Whatever you are doing this weekend have some fun.  I will. 

{August 16, 2013}   No gig? What?

Yeah, no gig this weekend. What to do? What to do?

Instead of playing the guitar till midnight on Saturday, we will be DJ’ing a wedding for a friend.  That will be a great experience for our friend and his bride.  Hopefully we can provide just the right background for the friends and family to visit with each other.  If they have a few drinks and warm up, we can get them out on the dancefloor.  A nice slow dance usually gets the couples out on to the floor.

Last wedding we hosted, I made a mistake that ended up starting the party.  I put a CD into the player and was scrolling down to a song that was familiar to me, but I missed it and hit “play.”  Some hiphop dance tune started up in this room full of cowboys and construction workers.  Yikes, oops, too late to undo it.

But a few notes into the song, the younger crowd let out with a hoop and a holler and headed out to the dance floor.  Little did I know it was a some big line dance that everyone knew except for me.  What kind of DJ am I?  I am new to this stuff, but it worked out great.

So even though there is no gig scheduled, we still keep our life filled with music.

Okay, if you read my last post, I was pondering what kind of night the band was going to have at the Whiskey Tavern a place we’ve never played ever before!  Well, let me tell you, it was a blast. 

The crowd was fun and rowdy.  We had lots of dancing and applause all night long.  At the end of the night when Mel was trying to say goodnight, he said everyone wanted to shake his hand and told him we were the best band they had ever heard in there.  Well, that’s awesome.

And we really rocked it up.  I mean we are a country band, but our song selection is upbeat.  Yeah, sure we have a tear in our beer on occasion, because everyone needs a sad song once in a while.  But mostly we keep it hopping and rowdy.  From Dwight Yoakum, George Jones and Merle Haggard, to Jason Aldean, Jake Owen and Blake Shelton, we find the fun stuff and we will take your breath away with the energy that we put into a song.  So you better be in good shape if you want to keep up with us.

But that energy does catch up with a person once in while, like me, for example.  Sure at 1am I was having a great old time, excited and pumped up.  Then we tore down the equipment, like rolling up miles of chords, packing up microphones, lights, guitars, and then back into the pickup truck.  All of sudden, it’s not so much fun.

We have a bass player buddy who says, “I play for free, you pay me to move gear”  well I totally get that.  Playing is too much fun, humping gear, huh, not so much.  But it’s a small price to pay for being a rock star.  Ah! 

Meet Silverwing at  Our CD “Moonshine” is available at our gigs, website, CD baby and Amazon.


{July 31, 2013}   Silverwing at Whiskey Tavern

Silverwing at Whiskey Tavern

Mary, Mel, Sean and Frank of Silverwing

We have a gig tonight.  Silverwing is booked to play at the Whiskey Tavern.  This is our first time playing there, so we just don’t know what to expect.  Is it a country crowd? A rock crowd?  Will it be packed or not?  Will they dance or just stare at us?

Years ago I came to my first Silverwing gig with my friend who was married to the drummer.  I had never met Mel, the band leader, who is now my husband.  After the very first song my girlfriend elbowed me in the side and said, “Applaud, it’s your job.”  So I applauded loudly and yelled “Yeah” and we helped the party get started.  It’s contagious. 

So we applauded and next thing you know someone else across the room applauds and their friend applauds and someone yells, “Yeah” and it spreads.  But without that first person it takes a while longer to win them over.  Sometimes no one wants to be the first person to give the band their endorsement by applauding and you get this uncomfortable empty silence at the end of a song that you just put all your effort into for the crowd.  Oh well.  It’s a challenge.

So maybe you take a break and talk to someone at the bar or nod at someone who will ask for a song and you make a connection.  Then after a few more beers and a slow buckle polishing song, you’ve got them.  They finally start to hoot and holler and it’s a party.  But it sure is easier when the band family table does it’s job of applauding!  Ha!

Wish us luck at the Whiskey Tavern.  Come say hi to us at our Facebook page or check out our website at  Our CD “Moonshine” is for sale there. 

All original music from Northern Nevada’s best kept secret, Silverwing. We may not be Number 1, but we try harder! You can hear the title track “Moonshine” at our website Purchase the entire CD or sample tracks and pick out your favorite. My suggestion this week????….I would check out “Wide Open Spaces” which is a huge crowd favorite.

et cetera