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Okay, if you read my last post, I was pondering what kind of night the band was going to have at the Whiskey Tavern a place we’ve never played ever before!  Well, let me tell you, it was a blast. 

The crowd was fun and rowdy.  We had lots of dancing and applause all night long.  At the end of the night when Mel was trying to say goodnight, he said everyone wanted to shake his hand and told him we were the best band they had ever heard in there.  Well, that’s awesome.

And we really rocked it up.  I mean we are a country band, but our song selection is upbeat.  Yeah, sure we have a tear in our beer on occasion, because everyone needs a sad song once in a while.  But mostly we keep it hopping and rowdy.  From Dwight Yoakum, George Jones and Merle Haggard, to Jason Aldean, Jake Owen and Blake Shelton, we find the fun stuff and we will take your breath away with the energy that we put into a song.  So you better be in good shape if you want to keep up with us.

But that energy does catch up with a person once in while, like me, for example.  Sure at 1am I was having a great old time, excited and pumped up.  Then we tore down the equipment, like rolling up miles of chords, packing up microphones, lights, guitars, and then back into the pickup truck.  All of sudden, it’s not so much fun.

We have a bass player buddy who says, “I play for free, you pay me to move gear”  well I totally get that.  Playing is too much fun, humping gear, huh, not so much.  But it’s a small price to pay for being a rock star.  Ah! 

Meet Silverwing at  Our CD “Moonshine” is available at our gigs, website, CD baby and Amazon.



{July 31, 2013}   Silverwing at Whiskey Tavern

Silverwing at Whiskey Tavern

Mary, Mel, Sean and Frank of Silverwing

We have a gig tonight.  Silverwing is booked to play at the Whiskey Tavern.  This is our first time playing there, so we just don’t know what to expect.  Is it a country crowd? A rock crowd?  Will it be packed or not?  Will they dance or just stare at us?

Years ago I came to my first Silverwing gig with my friend who was married to the drummer.  I had never met Mel, the band leader, who is now my husband.  After the very first song my girlfriend elbowed me in the side and said, “Applaud, it’s your job.”  So I applauded loudly and yelled “Yeah” and we helped the party get started.  It’s contagious. 

So we applauded and next thing you know someone else across the room applauds and their friend applauds and someone yells, “Yeah” and it spreads.  But without that first person it takes a while longer to win them over.  Sometimes no one wants to be the first person to give the band their endorsement by applauding and you get this uncomfortable empty silence at the end of a song that you just put all your effort into for the crowd.  Oh well.  It’s a challenge.

So maybe you take a break and talk to someone at the bar or nod at someone who will ask for a song and you make a connection.  Then after a few more beers and a slow buckle polishing song, you’ve got them.  They finally start to hoot and holler and it’s a party.  But it sure is easier when the band family table does it’s job of applauding!  Ha!

Wish us luck at the Whiskey Tavern.  Come say hi to us at our Facebook page or check out our website at  Our CD “Moonshine” is for sale there. 

All original music from Northern Nevada’s best kept secret, Silverwing. We may not be Number 1, but we try harder! You can hear the title track “Moonshine” at our website Purchase the entire CD or sample tracks and pick out your favorite. My suggestion this week????….I would check out “Wide Open Spaces” which is a huge crowd favorite.

Gigs are all unique.  The location, the crowd, the aura of the day.  Some gig days are tense.  Will they like us? Will anyone show up? Will I remember the chords to my new song?  Some gig days are comfortable, like our regular Saturday gig at our home town hangout.  Piece of cake, no sweat.

Well, yesterday was all adjustment, all day.  First, we had set up questions.  This spot? No too much sun.  That spot?  Not enough electricity.  That spot?  Too far away from the crowd.  Then we have to find that one song which will grab them and get them out of the floor.  That wasn’t too hard with this crowd full of cowboys.  Throw a George Strait at them and it’s a party.  So crowd participation was good.

But it was blistering hot, over 100.  There wasn’t enough water or Gatorade on the planet!  After 4 hours of tearing up the guitar leads, Mel’s hand finally cramped up into a little ball and we had to throw in the towel.  Of course they understood and handshakes all around with lots of atta-boys.  Mel even met one of his fans from his new job at KHWG 750AM.  A lady in the crowd said she had called in with a request just last week and he played her favorite song immediately.  Right on, go DJ Mel.

But the most unique thing that happened yesterday was definitely a Silverwing first.  So we’ve been playing for a few hours, outdoors, under a pavilion on a concrete slab.  We have a few couples on the dance floor swinging to some hopping country song, when I see something start moving across the floor.  It zips to the right, stop, zips to the left, stop, zip, zip.  Wow, by now I’m more than curious.  I’m alarmed.

For an insect, it’s rather large and of course, ugly, sorry, not a bug lover.  So my people are dancing near by as this largish bug is zipping all over the floor, so I step out from behind the microphone and make a display of watching this bug zipping around.  It starts heading for the bass player and he’s busy singing and watching this monster of a bug heading in his direction, when my hero came out of the crowd and stomped it.  We needed a big guy with big shoes for this bug, it was no common bug.  Whew!

When the song ended and we had a chance to look at the big gooey mess, oh my goodness, it was a scorpion.  Not only a big yucky mess, but dangerous as well.

So that is our first for yesterday.  Scorpions on the dance floor.  Sounds like a horror movie.

Mary Warstler is the rhythm guitar player for her band Silverwing.  You can purchase their first CD of original music at


{July 20, 2013}   Rockin Rodeo Party!

Silverwing is very excited today.  Today is the big Rodeo Party where all the local ranch types are coming together for a big barbeque and we get to play music for them.  This is a huge day for our band, since there will be people there who have never heard us play music.  On top of that, there will be out-of-towners attending, so hopefully the folks from Idaho, Utah, and California will be impressed.

We are playing in a long empty meeting room with an adjacent bar.  We’ve played this room before and we definitely need to set up our gear facing the bar.  Years ago we set up in the back corner away from the bar entrance.  Well, we did what we were told, but ugh, we spent the entire night playing to an empty room, since everyone was hanging at the bar.  We still played our best, that is our job, but I love seeing folks dancing, so it was boring!

So today, set up across from the bar, turn down the florescent lights and bring some flashing lights for some attitude.  Party attitude.  No matter how good you play, if you can’t get someone out on the dance floor, it’s just not that much fun for anyone.  I always love the first person who gets up out of their chair and head out to the dance floor, that is the spirit! 

It’s only gonna be about 109 degrees today, ha, so I think it’s gonna be a flip flop and tank top kinda day, oh, that’s got the potential for a song hook.  I’ll have to remember that one.  Plus some cold beverages, if you get my drift.

All in all, today is going to be a great day for Silverwing.  Hopefully we might sell a few CD’s, t-shirts or bling.  If you are interested in our gear, head to our website for our schedule and merch. 

It’s already been a busy summer for Silverwing (  The guys (Mel, Sean and Frank) and I have been from one end of Nevada to the other. From up in the mountains of Virginia City to crossing the beautiful Reese River Valley, the summer has been full of Wide Open Spaces!  

This weekend we will be playing at the DeGolyer Rodeo Party at the Fallon Eagles Hall.  Not only will this give us a chance to play for their out of town customers, but it’s also a chance to play for some of our neighbors from Fallon who haven’t been out to hear us when we play in town.  I’m thinking some classic country is going to go over real well at this party!

Another wonderful gig we did recently was a wedding in Eureka.  It was outdoors at the great fairgrounds with the awesome stage and pavilion.  It’s a challenge to keep a diverse group entertained, but as usual Mel pulled some songs out of his hat and we kept them dancing till close to midnight.   For a country band, we can rock it up or toss in a few 50’s songs just to keep everyone guess “what are they gonna do next?”

I love my “job” as the rhythm guitar player for Silverwing.  It has changed my life dramatically.  Never in my wildest dreams did I ever expect to stand on a stage in front of thousands of people and sing and play the guitar, but I have and it is amazing.  Yep, sometimes I just pinch myself and it’s really me up there.  Wow.

In a round about way our band and our CD “Moonshine” has led to Mel becoming a radio DJ on KHWG 750am in Fallon, NV.  Just another chapter in this wild ride.  So lead guitar player, songwriter, Karaoke host and now radio DJ.  Yes, Mel of Silverwing, leads a charmed life.

Silverwing’s CD of original music “Moonshine” is available at our website, or at our gigs.  Check our schedule to see when we are playing in your area. 



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